My adult daughter has cut off contact with me and I keep alternating between wanting to respect her boundaries and wanting to show up at her house and demand she explain what I did wrong.
More people experience this than they realize.
Parental love without access to its object can turn into a desperate rage that threatens the very boundaries we know we should honor.
“Where Are You with Grief and anger — the rage underneath?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.