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Scenario

How to handle disagreement about children timing in arranged marriage

My arranged marriage husband and I are trying for a baby but I am secretly taking birth control because I do not think we are ready but I cannot tell him.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The deception protects a truth too dangerous to speak within the marriage's current intimacy.

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Mira
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