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How to handle fantasies about past relationships during arranged marriage

My arranged marriage husband is kind but boring and I fantasize about my ex-boyfriend constantly and feel guilty about it.

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More people experience this than they realize.

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The heart's wayward wandering can make contentment feel like betrayal and memory feel like infidelity.

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“Where Are You with Arranged Marriage and Family-Mediated Partnership?”

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