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When helping someone you love hurts someone else you love

My best friend became homeless six months ago and I let him stay with us, but now my wife says he has to leave and I am torn between two people I love.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

True compassion sometimes requires choosing between competing loves without betraying either.

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“Where Are You with Agape — unconditional love across traditions?”

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