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When your best friend's relationship changes your friendship

My best friend got engaged and suddenly I feel like I am losing her to someone I barely know, and I cannot shake the feeling that I am being selfish for wanting things to stay the same.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The heart struggles to distinguish between healthy attachment and possessive need when faced with inevitable change.

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