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Scenario

How anticipatory grief can sabotage love in real time

My best friend is dying of cancer and I find myself pulling away because I cannot bear to watch her suffer but I know this is exactly when she needs me most.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Sometimes we abandon people before they can abandon us, even when that abandonment will come through death rather than choice.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Grief and love — what they share?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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