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When you discover you rank differently in someone's chosen family

My best friend of fifteen years just told me she considers her college roommates her real family and I feel like I have been demoted without warning.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Love assumes its own primacy until confronted with evidence of its actual place in the hierarchy of another's heart.

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“Where Are You with Chosen Family?”

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