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Why losing your closest friend can feel like losing part of yourself

My best friend since childhood died in a car accident and I realize I do not know who I am without her as my witness and co-conspirator in life.

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More people experience this than they realize.

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Intimate friendship creates a shared self that transcends individual boundaries, making the survivor feel incomplete rather than simply bereaved.

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