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Scenario

When your partner's 'helpful' comments about your appearance feel hurtful

My boyfriend criticizes my appearance in ways he says are helpful but they make me feel worse about myself

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Criticism disguised as care reveals the controller's inability to love what they cannot mold into their preferred image.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Boundaries in Love?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.