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Scenario

When your need for commitment triggers your partner's avoidance

My boyfriend gets overwhelmed when I try to talk about our future together and I can feel myself becoming that person who needs constant reassurance.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Two incompatible nervous systems are trying to regulate through each other, creating the very distance they fear.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Attachment style in choosing partners?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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