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What to do when you get engaged but don't want to get married

My boyfriend proposed last month and I said yes but I have been crying in my car after work every day since because I know I do not want to marry him

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Sometimes we say yes to avoid the immediate pain of disappointing someone while creating a lifetime of disappointing ourselves.

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