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How to stop testing love when trust was broken early

My boyfriend says I test his love constantly but I don't know how to stop because everyone who claimed to love me eventually proved they didn't.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The protective mechanism of testing love creates the very rejection it fears by pushing away those who might actually stay.

Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Family-of-origin patterns in adult love?”

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.