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Scenario

When Your Partner's Past Tragedy Becomes Your Present Burden

My boyfriend's ex-wife killed herself and his family blames him, and now they blame me for being with someone they see as cursed.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Love must carry the weight of histories it did not create when grief transforms into inherited guilt.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Love in Honor and Shame Cultures?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.