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When Your Partner's Family Cannot See You as Fully American

My boyfriend's family always comments on how good my English is even though I was born here and I am tired of being treated like a perpetual foreigner.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Belonging becomes a performance that never quite convinces when the audience sees foreignness before they see you.

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