My brother and I are fighting over whether to have a traditional shiva or something more modern and I'm afraid we're destroying our relationship while we're supposed to be mourning our mother.
More people experience this than they realize.
Grief amplifies existing fractures while demanding impossible unity.
“Where Are You with Jewish mourning — shiva shloshim yahrzeit?”
Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.