My brother borrowed my car six months ago after his was repossessed and now treats it like his own while I take the bus to work and I am too afraid to ask for it back.
More people experience this than they realize.
You have learned that your needs matter less than other people's comfort, even when that comfort is built on your sacrifice.
“Where Are You with Codependency?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.