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When helping someone you love harms someone else you love

My brother struggles with addiction and I have given him money and a place to stay multiple times but my wife says I am enabling him and threatened to leave if I help him again.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

You are caught between two forms of love that seem to cancel each other out.

Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Ubuntu love — the communal dimension?”

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.