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How to mourn a hidden heritage

My Cherokee great-grandmother hid her identity so well that I only found out after she died and now I don't know how to grieve for something I never knew I lost.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Discovering concealed ancestry creates a unique form of retroactive loss and identity confusion.

Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Historical grief — intergenerational mourning?”

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