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Scenario

When fear of loss makes us complicit in being used

My college roommate asks me to lend her money every few months and I always say yes even though she never pays me back because I am afraid if I say no I will lose the friendship.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

We sometimes preserve relationships by allowing them to become transactions, then wonder why connection feels like exploitation.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Commitment — what it means and what it costs?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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