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How to cope with blame from someone who died by suicide

My cousin died by suicide and left a note blaming our family for not caring about his depression, and now I keep replaying every interaction wondering if I missed signs.

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More people experience this than they realize.

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Suicide notes can weaponize our love, turning grief into a permanent courtroom where we are both judge and defendant.

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