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When mourning traditions clash with life's celebrations

My cousin died in a car accident and our family is doing the traditional seven days of mourning with no music or celebration, but my daughter is turning five next week and I do not know if I should cancel her party.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Grief rituals can demand a pause that life's ongoing needs cannot accommodate.

Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with African grief traditions — communal mourning?”

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