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Scenario

When relief narratives clash with love's selfishness

My dad keeps saying I should be happy my mom is not suffering anymore but I am selfish enough to wish she was still here suffering with me.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The expectation of grateful relief can shame the natural desire to keep our beloved with us regardless of cost.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with What not to say to a grieving person?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.