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How to love someone whose illness reveals ugly truths

My elderly father is becoming more racist and sexist as his dementia progresses and I do not know how to love him while also protecting my mixed-race children from his comments during visits.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

You are discovering that unconditional love still requires boundaries, especially when protecting the vulnerable.

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