My estranged father is dying and everyone expects me to reconcile with him but I do not want to and feel like a terrible person for being okay with him disappearing forever.
More people experience this than they realize.
Death does not automatically sanctify relationship or create obligation where none existed in life.
“Where Are You with Anticipatory grief — losing someone before they die?”
Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.