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Scenario

When Your Ex and Friend Expect You to Celebrate Their Betrayal

My ex-boyfriend is dating my former best friend and they both act like I should be happy for them.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The demand to perform grace in the face of compound loss reveals how others' discomfort with our pain becomes another burden to carry.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Grief in Love — Mourning the End?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.