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When you want your ex and friend to be happy but secretly hope they break up

My ex-boyfriend started dating my best friend six months after we broke up and I keep having fantasies about them breaking up even though I genuinely want them both to be happy.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The heart's genuine wish for others' wellbeing collides with the ego's territorial claims on love.

Ideas that help explain it
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