Periagoge
Scenario

When you want your ex and friend to be happy but secretly hope they break up

My ex-boyfriend started dating my best friend six months after we broke up and I keep having fantasies about them breaking up even though I genuinely want them both to be happy.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The heart's genuine wish for others' wellbeing collides with the ego's territorial claims on love.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Buddhist Brahmaviharas in Relationship?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.