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When Your Ex Marries the Person They Cheated With

My ex cheated on me with my best friend and now they're engaged, and I keep obsessing over whether I should forgive them or if that just makes me weak.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

You're confusing forgiveness with self-betrayal, when true forgiveness actually requires knowing your own worth.

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Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Forgiveness in Love — What It Takes?”

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.