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Scenario

How to grieve an ex-spouse who has died

My ex-husband died and we've been divorced for ten years but I still feel like I lost something important and I don't know if I'm allowed to grieve someone I chose to leave.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Love's complicated endings don't erase its complicated losses.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Jewish mourning — shiva shloshim yahrzeit?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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