My ex-husband died unexpectedly and I'm the only one who can plan his funeral since his family is estranged, but I divorced him for good reasons and don't know how to honor someone who hurt me.
More people experience this than they realize.
Death can thrust us into caretaking roles for those whose lives intersected with our wounds, demanding grace we're not sure we possess.
“Where Are You with Sudden loss vs. expected loss?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.