Periagoge
Scenario

Why you still want your ex to suffer

My ex-husband remarried and seems genuinely happy and I cannot stop wishing something would go wrong in his new relationship.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Unprocessed hurt is masquerading as a desire for justice while poisoning your own capacity for joy.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Metta — Buddhist loving-kindness?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.