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When others claim your grief dates

My ex-husband remarried on what would have been our anniversary and I found out through social media, and now I don't know how to process this weird grief hijacking.

Mira
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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The sacred calendar of loss can be unwittingly violated by others' joy.

Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Grief anniversaries and triggering dates?”

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.