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Whether to respond when an ex wants to reconnect

My ex reached out asking to talk after no contact for a year and I do not know if this is healing or just reopening wounds.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The desire for closure conflicts with the wisdom of letting sleeping grief lie undisturbed.

Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Conflict and Repair in Love?”

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.