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Scenario

How to stop being someone's emotional backup plan

My ex texts me when he is lonely and I always respond even though I have a new boyfriend and I know this is wrong.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Past attachments exploit present loneliness at the expense of current commitments.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Emotional Labor in Love?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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