Periagoge
Scenario

When you lose yourself trying to be who each partner wants

My ex used to say I was clingy but my new boyfriend says I am distant and I do not know who I actually am in relationships.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

You have become a mirror reflecting others' needs, forgetting you have needs of your own to honor.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Attachment style in choosing partners?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.