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Scenario

When tragedy creates outcomes you secretly wanted

My ex-wife died in an accident and our kids want to live with me full time now, but I feel guilty that her death solved our custody battles in my favor.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Getting what we wished for through someone's suffering can make us feel complicit in their misfortune.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Grief and guilt?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.