My family is sitting shiva but I'm immunocompromised and can't risk having all these people in the house and I feel like I'm choosing my health over honoring my mother.
More people experience this than they realize.
The body's limitations can feel like moral failures when grief demands presence.
“Where Are You with Jewish mourning — shiva shloshim yahrzeit?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.