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Scenario

When distance prevents participation in a parent's funeral rites

My father died six months ago and I live in America but my relatives in India performed all his last rites without me there and I feel like I failed him completely as a daughter.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The heart struggles to reconcile love with circumstances beyond its control when sacred duties cannot be fulfilled.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Hindu grief practices — antyesti and shraddha?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.