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Scenario

Why other people's healing can feel like betrayal

My father is remarrying eighteen months after my mother died and I am angry at him for moving on but also angry at myself for wanting him to suffer forever.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

We can simultaneously want loved ones to find peace and feel abandoned when they do, as if their suffering was proof of their love.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Grief and love — what they share?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.