My father is remarrying eighteen months after my mother died and I am angry at him for moving on but also angry at myself for wanting him to suffer forever.
More people experience this than they realize.
We can simultaneously want loved ones to find peace and feel abandoned when they do, as if their suffering was proof of their love.
“Where Are You with Grief and love — what they share?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.