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When you mistake anxiety for chemistry in relationships

My friends say I have high standards but I think I just refuse to settle for someone who does not make my heart race.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Your nervous system has learned to interpret familiar chaos as passion, rejecting the foreign feeling of peace.

Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Attachment style in choosing partners?”

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.