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Scenario

When your partner self-harms in response to relationship conflict

My girlfriend cuts herself when we fight and I'm starting to edit everything I say and I feel like I'm walking on eggshells in my own relationship.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The fear of causing harm can transform authentic connection into performance.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Love and trauma — loving someone with a difficult past?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.