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When your partner self-harms in response to relationship conflict

My girlfriend cuts herself when we fight and I'm starting to edit everything I say and I feel like I'm walking on eggshells in my own relationship.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The fear of causing harm can transform authentic connection into performance.

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