My girlfriend has BPD and she splits on me regularly, calling me horrible names and then apologizing hours later, and I don't know how much forgiveness I have left.
More people experience this than they realize.
Unconditional love does not require unconditional tolerance of harm.
“Where Are You with Love and trauma — loving someone with a difficult past?”
Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.