My girlfriend of three years wants to move in together but I keep finding reasons to delay because I'm terrified she'll see how messy and chaotic my actual life is and leave me.
More people experience this than they realize.
The vulnerability required for deeper commitment activates old wounds about being truly known and potentially rejected.
“Where Are You with LGBTQ+ Love, Partnership, and Its Varieties?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.