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How to address when your partner invades your privacy in the name of closeness

My girlfriend reads my texts and emails and says it's because she wants to feel close to me but it makes me feel suffocated

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Intimacy inverted becomes intrusion when the desire to know everything replaces trust in what is freely shared.

Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Boundaries in Love?”

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.