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Scenario

When gift-giving becomes a performance evaluation

My girlfriend says her love language is gifts but she's very particular about what she likes, and I feel like I'm failing a test I didn't know I was taking every time I choose something.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The pressure to demonstrate love through perfect selection can transform generous impulses into anxiety-producing obligations.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with The love languages — examined critically?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.