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Scenario

When Your Partner's Conditions for Intimacy Keep Changing

My girlfriend says she needs to feel emotionally connected first but whenever I try to be emotionally available she finds something wrong with how I'm doing it.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Moving goalposts transform genuine effort into a fool's game that serves no one.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Sexlessness in Relationships?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.