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Scenario

How to discuss expensive engagement ring expectations with your partner

My girlfriend wants an expensive engagement ring that would cost me four months of salary and I am terrified to tell her I think that is financially irresponsible because she might think I do not love her enough.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Love is being forced to prove itself through spending, turning a symbol of commitment into a test of financial devotion.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Love and money — financial stress in relationships?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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