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Scenario

How to Maintain Independence with an Anxiously Attached Partner

My girlfriend wants to know where I am all the time and I feel like I'm losing myself but when I ask for space she breaks down crying.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

One person's reasonable need for autonomy becomes another's evidence of abandonment, creating an impossible choice between self and other.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Attachment Styles in Romantic Relationship?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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