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When commitment feels like a threat to your freedom

My girlfriend wants to move in together after two years but I keep finding reasons to delay it because I am terrified of losing my independence.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The desire for love and the need for autonomy can create an internal war that sabotages deeper connection.

Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Long-term partnership — sustaining love over time?”

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.