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Scenario

When your partner's love language conflicts with your triggers

My girlfriend's love language is gifts but I grew up poor and spending money on non-essentials gives me anxiety, so I feel like I can't love her right without triggering my own trauma.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The collision between how we need to give love and how our partner needs to receive it can expose our deepest wounds.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with The love languages — examined critically?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.