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When the deceased's final wishes feel like betrayal

My grandfather died and left everything to the church instead of family, and I'm angry at him but ashamed for caring about money when I should just miss him.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The dead can wound the living in ways that feel both material and spiritual.

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“Where Are You with Grief and relief — complex feelings after difficult deaths?”

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